First sex and sexual education of young

10.08.2020
First sex and sexual education of young people yesterday and today  

For many times, the concept of sexual liberation has taken various forms. Girls ' behavior was always a topic of gossip. For older people, it is not acceptable for girls to freely communicate with men. Why not? It's just that when they were young, such behavior was forbidden. Girls until adulthood did not leave their native walls, engaged in needlework and did not walk the streets unaccompanied. Unlike escort girls, further description with the article!

Modern children are taught to read early. A well-read girl is the dream of any parents. But what about the stereotypes of the past, when girls from respectable families were practically forbidden to engage in mental activity?  A girl who read romance novels was considered promiscuous. And even if the girls were allowed to read, they cut out any moments from the books that could "corrupt" an innocent creature, even though these works are too free for those times today are included in the school curriculum.

Interesting fact: there was a time when it was forbidden to use certain words in the presence of a female. For example, you could not use the expression "chicken thighs" at the table – it was considered indecent. You should have said " sirloin." And also, God forbid a person will use the expression "chicken egg"in conversation. It was replaced with the phrase "chicken fruit". Such, in today's view, little things in the old days could offend the innocence of girls. You do not need to go far - even any other hairstyle on the girl's head in addition to the usual braid was perceived as a sign of depravity. Special attention was drawn to the fashionable square at that time. Wearers of such a haircut at a glance identified almost as an escort girl.

Based on the above, it is not difficult to guess how people of different ages feel about the issue of sex. Even the use of the word itself was once considered indecent! This can be seen in the modern world. In most articles, the word "sex "is replaced by the term"sexual act". Inexperienced young people often turn to literature to find answers to their questions. If we consider the articles that are published, it seems that they are written by people who have only a vague idea about it. Much of this literature refers to the sex to be the main cause of all ills. This category includes AIDS, various sexually transmitted diseases, and pregnancy. But there are a number of serious diseases that occur without sexual contact, the consequences of which are no less dangerous.

Recall that it was sex that gave life to every living being, and the rejection of it will simply put an end to all humanity. Also, only sex allows you to feel the fullness of the relationship, fully in love with a couple to enjoy each other. And to avoid undesirable and unpleasant consequences, there is no need for complete abstinence. All you need to do is follow the rules of hygiene and safety using various protective means.

The decision about when to start sexual life should be made for each person individually. There is no precise definition of which period is the safest. Of course, there is no need to hurry with this matter either. Before starting the transition to" adult life", the body must be ready for such a step. If a girl decides to start sexual life quite early, then in order for sex not to cause harm, the partner must be her peer, and not a sexual giant! As for the loss of virginity – this process is associated with the rupture of the hymen, which, in fact, does not mean anything for the female body. From time immemorial, it was believed that a girl should keep her virginity until marriage, which was reflected in the psyche of girls at the first sexual act. This process does not imply anything terrible. The hymen does not play any role for the development or health of the body, but is simply present until a certain time. Moreover, many girls even began to remove the hymen themselves before the first sex, not considering the process itself worth special attention. Sex is first of all an explosion of emotions, everything else is just a physiological process. After losing your virginity, you should remember the recommendations of doctors: abstinence from sex for several days after the hymen rupture, and careful hygiene of the genitals.

Instead of thinking about such inevitable processes as hymen rupture, which will occur sooner or later, it is better to pay more attention to the choice of a partner. Youth passes quickly, and with it the inspiring feelings that girls evoke from their young princes. Such love and tenderness, as in youth, will never be again. After all, princes are covered with stubble, and unearthly sensations take on a different appearance. Therefore, you should not miss such moments in life. Don't go after sex. This is not just a physiological process, and people have sex without being guided only by animal instinct. These are much more complex feelings and emotions!

 For the first sex, the most comfortable and quiet place should be chosen. It is better to wait until the parents leave the house and make love on a clean bed. Start by taking a shared shower, don't forget to use condoms, and... don't rush it. The girl needs time to set herself up in the right way. After all, this is the first time in her life! Sex, in addition to coitus, is also long, gentle caresses, kisses, hugs. Trust between partners is also a must. This is very important, and its absence does not allow for intimacy. You can not have sex with a guy, open your feelings and emotions to him, if you are not sure that tomorrow it will become public knowledge.

The main thing - do not expect much from the first sex. These expectations may disappoint the girl. Experience comes with time, and the ability to get pleasure from sex often also requires a lot of time.
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